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Manipulation

You will never, ever be good enough for a manipulative and controlling person

  • November 27, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Guilt, Manipulation, Relationships, self-esteem, self-worth
Should you love more, do more, or be more for another person who never seems to be happy? One method of control is to make sure you’re always trying...
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Kind words carefully crafted to plant the seed of guilt and shame

  • November 21, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Crazymaking, deception, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Guilt, Manipulation, Relationships, Shame
Some people have a clever way of making you feel bad about yourself by complimenting you and using positive, supportive words that make it seem like they really care....
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Why you get conned into the psychologically abusive relationship

  • November 16, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Crazymaking, deception, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, lying, Manipulation, Narcissism, Relationships
If you’ve ever wondered why you felt a connection with someone that turned out to be controlling and manipulative, you were probably manipulated from day one. And it’s possible...
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How to stop being hurtful and controlling with the people you love

  • November 5, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Emotional Abuse, lying, Manipulation, Narcissism, Relationships
When you hurt someone you love, you’re letting them know that they are not that important in your life. After all, why would you hurt someone you care about?...
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An analysis of emotional abuse: Breaking down the bad behavior

  • October 25, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Crazymaking, deception, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, lying, Manipulation, Minimizing, Relationships, self-esteem, self-worth
When someone shows you every single red flag you need to determine there is lying, control, and manipulation going on, at what point do you tell yourself you’re not...
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When someone tarnishes your good name and reputation – The Smear Campaign

  • October 9, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Manipulation, Narcissism, Relationships
The smear campaign is a card often played by narcissists, sociopaths, and other emotional abusers to make you look like the bad guy. If you’re hurt and miserable, they...
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If you leave me, I’ll kill myself – The ultimate abuse of your empathy and compassion

  • September 25, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, deception, Emotional Abuse, Enabling, Guilt, Manipulation, Relationships
Confronting the ultimate manipulation in a relationship, the threat of suicide is a very troubling and often abusive tactic. It’s a scenario that traps an empathetic, caring individual in...
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Have they really changed or are they faking it? Learning to differentiate between true change and acting.

  • May 27, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • deception, Emotional Abuse, lying, Manipulation, Relationships
When someone in your life claims to have changed and promises to stop behaving badly, have they truly changed, or are they just pretending? Telling the difference between the...
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Emotionally abusive isolation and how it ensures you lose your friends, family, and support system

  • May 6, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Emotional Abuse, Manipulation, Relationships
Isolation occurs when someone wants to keep you from your friends, family, and support structures. You will become more dependent on the one who is isolating you, causing you...
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There is nothing you could have done differently, emotional abuse would have happened anyway

  • April 10, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Manipulation, Relationships, self-esteem, self-worth
Many emotional abuse victims believe they are at fault for the abuse as if there is something they did to bring it on. The short answer is there is...
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