How you describe the challenges in your relationship can reveal if youre being emotionally abused
The language you use to describe your relationship and how you’re getting along with the other person says a lot. If you’ve ever wondered if
Should you make a list of everything they’re doing wrong and hand it to them?
What would happen if you decided to write them a loving, supportive letter outlining all of their hurtful behaviors in hopes they’ll read it and
Avoid getting trapped into an emotional prison from which you can’t escape
The cycle of high ups and deep downs in a relationship is like being trapped in an emotional prison. There are moments of freedom and
What are the chances of an emotional abuser healing and the relationship surviving?
I recently received an insightful message from a listener who is on a journey to heal from emotionally abusive behaviors. This person expressed that they
Why they don’t stop hurting you when they see you hurting
Why do people who claim to care about us hurt us when they see that we’re suffering? Shouldn’t our suffering be enough for them to
When parents get involved in your difficult relationship
Dealing with a hurtful person is often hard enough. When your partner has hurtful parents, however, it gets even harder, especially when you thought you
Religious Abuse: When they use your beliefs and faith against you
Your religious or spiritual beliefs are supposed to help uplift and inspire you, not make you feel oppressed and exhausted. Religious abuse happens when people
When they believe they've changed
I get messages from those who are with someone who claims to have changed, but something doesn’t feel right to them. What they feel is
The huge wall the emotional abuser puts up
Why can’t they just change? Why don’t they just stop hurting you? Sometimes they’ve built such a huge wall of protection around themselves that nothing
The battles that drain your power
The emotionally abusive relationship can be a battle. In fact, it can be a series of battles that wear you down and eventually wear you
