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Emotional Abuse

Understanding the addict in the manipulative relationship

  • October 19, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Codependency, Control, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Enabling, lying, Manipulation
Dealing with a manipulative and controlling relationship is bad enough, but what happens when the person doing the bad behavior is also dealing with addiction? What if the addiction...
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Should you try harder to please the emotionally abusive person?

  • September 30, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Divorce, Emotional Abuse, Relationships, Shame
One of the constants in emotionally abusive relationships is when the victim tries to please an unpleasable person.  No matter what they do or how hard they try, it’s...
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How the emotional abuser takes your empowerment tools away from you

  • September 10, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Arguments, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Manipulation, Relationships, self-esteem, self-worth
What is one of the most effective forms of emotional abuse? When the abusive person takes everything that empowers you away from you. All your tools and resources become...
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Glossing over the first detail in an argument will make it fall apart fast

  • September 4, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Anger, Arguments, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, influence, Minimizing, Relationships
The first important point in a growing argument might be the most important one that gets glossed over. When that happens, the person trying to express what they’re feeling...
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You deserve to be treated with nothing less than respect and kindness

  • August 28, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Healing, Relationships, self-esteem, self-worth
When you’ve been mistreated for so long, you may begin to feel less worthy of love and affection. You might actually start to believe that you deserve bad behavior...
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Should you share content that talks about emotional abuse with emotionally abusive people?

  • August 16, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Codependency, Control, Emotional Abuse, Manipulation, Relationships
There are times when you want to share what you learn on this show with an abusive person, but is it the right thing to do? This show articulates...
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What do you do when they’re gaslighting you?

  • August 6, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, lying, Manipulation
Gaslighting, or “crazymaking” is one of the more insidious forms of emotional abuse. Those that do and say things to make you feel crazy want you to be stuck...
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How incompatibility can lead to hurtful and emotionally abusive behavior

  • July 18, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Manipulation, Relationships
< Simple incompatibilities are common in relationships, but what happens when they lead to emotionally abusive behavior? In this episode, I talk about the potential for hurtful and controlling...
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Breaking the patterns of bad behavior that diminish your worth and well-being

  • July 1, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, lying, Manipulation, Relationships, self-esteem, self-worth
Every now and then someone you care about makes a mistake and says or does something to make you feel bad. These one-offs are forgivable. They could be having...
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Not everyone is going to agree with the decisions you make for yourself

  • June 25, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Emotional Abuse, Relationships, Shame
What happens when you create a show about abusive behavior? You hear from people that aren’t happy that they are being called out on that behavior. On today’s episode,...
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