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Have they really changed or are they faking it? Learning to differentiate between true change and acting.

  • May 27, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • deception, Emotional Abuse, lying, Manipulation, Relationships
When someone in your life claims to have changed and promises to stop behaving badly, have they truly changed, or are they just pretending? Telling the difference between the...
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It takes two to build and one to destroy: The cheating partner works alone

  • May 24, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • deception, Emotional Abuse, Infidelity, lying, Relationships
When the partner of a cheater carries guilt, thinking their own behavior caused the cheating, the relationship can disintegrate even further, destroying the very foundation of what’s left. The...
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Are they for real: Is it all lies and deception or are you just going nuts?

  • May 17, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • deception, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, lying, Relationships
The actor in the relationship can fool the best of us. When you can’t tell what’s an act and what’s real, you soon start to question your own sanity....
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Emotionally abusive isolation and how it ensures you lose your friends, family, and support system

  • May 6, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Emotional Abuse, Manipulation, Relationships
Isolation occurs when someone wants to keep you from your friends, family, and support structures. You will become more dependent on the one who is isolating you, causing you...
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In love with someone that wants it both ways: Healing from the obsession over the unhealthy relationship

  • April 23, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • deception, Emotional Abuse, Infidelity, lying, Relationships
Are you waiting for someone else to change so that you can get what you want? In this episode, I talk about an email I received from a woman...
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Stopping the downward spiral of unhealthy communication patterns with self-reflection

  • April 22, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Emotional Abuse, Healing, Relationships, self-esteem, self-worth
Sometimes a conversation with a certain person always seems to lead down a path of misery. You end up feeling bad and can’t figure out what happened. These old...
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There is nothing you could have done differently, emotional abuse would have happened anyway

  • April 10, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Manipulation, Relationships, self-esteem, self-worth
Many emotional abuse victims believe they are at fault for the abuse as if there is something they did to bring it on. The short answer is there is...
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How you enable manipulative and controlling behavior by being your wonderful self

  • March 27, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Emotional Abuse, Manipulation, Relationships, self-worth
When you are kind, generous and caring, and you get controlling and manipulative behavior in return, you may be the very cause of perpetuating it without even realizing it....
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Yes, there are people that know how to control you and steal your power

  • March 23, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Manipulation, Relationships
We are often told that we can choose how to feel and that no one can actually control us. However, in emotional abuse and manipulation, that concept doesn’t seem...
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The narcissist under the hood – The difficulty of explaining emotional abuse to friends and family

  • March 15, 2019
  • Paul Colaianni
  • deception, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, lying, Manipulation, Narcissism, Relationships
One of the biggest challenges for someone dealing with a manipulative or narcissistic partner is that others don’t see what happens behind closed doors. The manipulator often appears kind...
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