• M.E.A.N. Workbook
  • Podcast
  • Help for the abuser
  • Quick Lessons
  • Resources
  • More
    • About Me and The Show
    • Contact
    • Newsletter - keep in touch!
    • For Anxiety
    • The Overwhelmed Brain Podcast
    • M.E.A.N. Workbook
    • Podcast
    • Help for the abuser
    • Quick Lessons
    • Resources
    • More
      • About Me and The Show
      • Contact
      • Newsletter - keep in touch!
      • For Anxiety
      • The Overwhelmed Brain Podcast
Love and Abuse - Manipulation and Emotional Abuse in Relationships
Love and Abuse - Manipulation and Emotional Abuse in Relationships
  • M.E.A.N. Workbook
  • Podcast
  • Help for the abuser
  • Quick Lessons
  • Resources
  • More
    • About Me and The Show
    • Contact
    • Newsletter - keep in touch!
    • For Anxiety
    • The Overwhelmed Brain Podcast
Purchase

Boundaries

When parents get involved in your difficult relationship

  • May 5, 2023
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Arguments, Boundaries, Emotional Abuse, Family, Podcast Episode, Relationships, self-esteem, Vulnerability
Dealing with a hurtful person is often hard enough. When your partner has hurtful parents, however, it gets even harder, especially when you thought you had a somewhat good...
Continue Reading

Bonding with people who traumatize you

  • July 5, 2022
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Boundaries, Codependency, Control, Emotional Abuse, Podcast Episode, Relationships
Becoming dependent on someone can put you at their mercy sometimes. And if they are toxic, you are not only now dependent on them for certain things, but they...
Continue Reading

The type of person that doesn't deserve a second chance

  • October 22, 2021
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Boundaries, Control, Emotional Abuse, Manipulation, Physical Abuse, Podcast Episode, Relationships, self-esteem, self-worth
How bad does it have to get before you’re convinced that the person you’re dealing with is never, ever going to change? And how much more hurtful behavior has...
Continue Reading

When you want them to hurt

  • October 15, 2021
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Anger, Boundaries, Emotional Abuse, Podcast Episode, Relationships
What happens when the hurtful behavior stops and you are free to be yourself? Does the relationship now go back to normal like nothing ever happened? It can, but...
Continue Reading

Is there an easy way to help someone understand they are being emotionally abusive?

  • July 11, 2021
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Boundaries, Control, Emotional Abuse, Manipulation, Podcast Episode, Relationships
If you told a “normal” person they were being emotionally abusive, you’d think they’d back off and re-evaluate their behavior. After all, people who care about you don’t want...
Continue Reading

Some people would rather hurt you than be vulnerable with you

  • July 11, 2021
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Boundaries, Control, Emotional Abuse, lying, Manipulation, Podcast Episode, Relationships
Some people become highly defensive or offensive when they want to hide something from you, or lie to you, or don’t want to be vulnerable with you, because it’s...
Continue Reading

Knowing the difference between emotional abuse and normal relationship difficulties

  • June 17, 2021
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Boundaries, Control, Emotional Abuse, Manipulation, Podcast Episode, Relationships
The two sides of emotional abuse are the perpetrator and the victim. Sometimes the victim can’t tell if there’s abusive behavior or just normal relationship difficulties. Sometimes the hurtful...
Continue Reading
What's acceptable behavior in the relationship?

What's acceptable behavior in the relationship

  • April 15, 2021
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Arguments, Boundaries, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, lying, Podcast Episode, Relationships
When a relationship is difficult, it’s helpful to have an established baseline of acceptable behavior. If you don’t know what is acceptable and what isn’t, how can you possibly...
Continue Reading

Is it reactive abuse or a normal response to emotionally abusive behavior?

  • March 18, 2021
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Anger, Arguments, Boundaries, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Podcast Episode
“Am I the abuser?” It’s a question I get a lot. In this article, I’ll share what reactive abuse is and how you can be pushed to the limit...
Continue Reading

What is emotional abuse? How do I know when it's time to leave? And other important questions.

  • March 11, 2021
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Boundaries, Divorce, Emotional Abuse, Podcast Episode, Relationships
Sometimes it helps to know what to look for in your relationship and how a relationship is supposed to look when you just aren’t happy or are dealing with...
Continue Reading

Posts pagination

Previous 1 2 3 4 Next
Purchase Workbook
Healed Being Website
Love and Abuse

Click here to return to Love and Abuse

The M.E.A.N. Workbook is brought to you by The Overwhelmed Brain, LLC, copyright 2019-2025. All Rights Reserved. Privacy Policy - Anti-Spam Policy - Affiliate DisclosureThis site assumes no responsibility for any errors or omissions. The Overwhelmed Brain specifically disclaims any liability resulting from the use or application of the information contained in the blog, podcast, services, books, and products, and the information is not intended to serve as medical, psychological, legal, financial, or other professional advice related to individual situations. Do not use the information found on this site, podcasts, services, books, or products to replace professional medical or psychological services.