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When a relationship is not a relationship

  • April 16, 2025
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Arguments, Control, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Relationships
“Everything’s great with me,” they say, as you sit there staring, confused, wondering what the hell you’re missing because you’re having a completely different experience as them. When is...
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A clever manipulation tactic that makes you believe you are the problem

  • March 2, 2024
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Arguments, Control, Crazymaking, deception, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, lying, Manipulation
There’s a clever manipulation that can happen in some emotionally abusive relationships. It starts with superficial kindness and vague promises and leads to blameshifting and avoiding true accountability. This...
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How you describe the challenges in your relationship to others can reveal if you’re being emotionally abused

  • September 7, 2023
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Relationships
The language you use to describe your relationship and how you’re getting along with the other person says a lot. If you’ve ever wondered if you are the hurtful...
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Religious Abuse: When they use your beliefs and faith against you

  • March 31, 2023
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Manipulation, Relationships, Religious Abuse, Shame
Your religious or spiritual beliefs are supposed to help uplift and inspire you, not make you feel oppressed and exhausted. Religious abuse happens when people who claim to love...
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Can you find yourself after they stop the hurtful behavior?

  • March 2, 2022
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Control, Crazymaking, Divorce, Emotional Abuse, Forgiveness, self-worth
Sometimes the emotional abuse stops. If and when it does, will you know who you are? Do you know where you went? Sometimes we lose ourselves in relationships like...
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How many times does someone have to hurt you before you decide enough is enough?

  • June 11, 2021
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Guilt, lying, Manipulation
There’s a point when there has been enough abusive behavior where you decide you’re no longer going to stand for it and it’s time to take the next right...
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Letting hurtful words or threatening comments become the new normal

  • May 19, 2021
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Codependency, Control, Crazymaking, Divorce, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Guilt, Manipulation, Relationships
When you’re around those who always put you down with hurtful words or threats that they’ll never talk to you again, but they never follow through with it, it...
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Is it reactive abuse or a normal response to emotionally abusive behavior?

  • March 18, 2021
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Anger, Arguments, Boundaries, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting
“Am I the abuser?” It’s a question I get a lot. In this article, I’ll share what reactive abuse is and how you can be pushed to the limit...
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Understanding the addict in the manipulative relationship

  • October 19, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Codependency, Control, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Enabling, lying, Manipulation
Dealing with a manipulative and controlling relationship is bad enough, but what happens when the person doing the bad behavior is also dealing with addiction? What if the addiction...
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How the emotional abuser takes your empowerment tools away from you

  • September 10, 2020
  • Paul Colaianni
  • Arguments, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Manipulation, Relationships, self-esteem, self-worth
What is one of the most effective forms of emotional abuse? When the abusive person takes everything that empowers you away from you. All your tools and resources become...
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