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My partner says everything is fine but it’s not

Don’t gaslight yourself into thinking you’re the abuser

  • December 22, 2025
  • Crazymaking, deception, Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting, Podcast Episode
The emotionally abusive relationship is confusing and draining. If you don’t get a grip on what’s going on, you may start to believe perhaps you are the problem and...
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The language patterns of the abusive person

  • August 21, 2025
  • Control, Emotional Abuse, Healing, Podcast Episode, Relationships
The way someone talks about their relationship reveals a lot. Abuse victims and perpetrators each have their own language patterns. Knowing these language patterns will help you understand which...
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When someone wants to change who you are

  • May 20, 2025
  • Boundaries, Control, Emotional Abuse, Healing, Manipulation, Podcast Episode, self-worth
The one-off difficulties in relationships are perfectly normal for everyone. We all have them. They’re not welcome, necessarily, but normal. But what happens when the “one-offs” become systemic? What...
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When a relationship is not a relationship

  • April 16, 2025
  • Arguments, Control, Crazymaking, Emotional Abuse, Podcast Episode, Relationships
“Everything’s great with me,” they say, as you sit there staring, confused, wondering what the hell you’re missing because you’re having a completely different experience from them. When is...
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I want you to change: The toxic elements of the difficult relationship

  • June 4, 2020
  • Anger, Control, Emotional Abuse, Guilt, influence, Manipulation, Podcast Episode, Relationships
We can spend so much time hoping the other person will change so that our life will be better, but we end up missing out on a lot of...
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