Healed Being – The most effective step-by-step program to help you stop emotionally abusive behavior and give you the best chance at healing a damaged relationship.
I get quite a few messages from those who’ve learned that they are the emotionally abusive person in the relationship.
Fortunately, the only time I get messages from people like this is when they want to know how they can change. I never get messages from those telling me they know they are abusive and don’t care.
If someone in your life is being emotionally abusive and they have expressed a desire to change, definitely guide them to this program.
If you consider yourself an emotionally abusive person (or have been told you are doing emotionally abusive behavior), first of all, give yourself some credit for even reading something like this. After all, the fact that you’re here means you know something needs to change.
I learned about my own emotionally abusive behaviors very late in life and lost every relationship because of it. After my marriage ended, I knew I had to change or I would never be happy, whether I was in a relationship or not. I finally accepted I was the common denominator of all my relationship failures.
My healing journey was difficult but worth every step along the way. I now feel lighter than ever, and I’m free of the burden of feeling the need to control or change others. It’s a relief, actually!
Emotionally abusive behaviors come from old, unhealthy beliefs and poorly developed coping mechanisms. When you feel the need to control or change someone else, it’s likely because you haven’t learned healthier ways to deal with challenges, and need to learn more productive ways to express yourself and tell people what you want.
Once you learn to think differently, you’ll act differently. And acting differently gives you different results.
For me, I always thought it would be easier to guilt those I love into giving me what I wanted instead of allowing them to be who they are. Once I healed from that behavior (and many others), everyone’s lives got easier.
My insecurities didn’t allow others to be themselves around me. But the more secure I felt in myself, the more secure others felt to be authentic and close around me.
(Note: Supporting someone’s individuality is one of the keys to stopping emotionally abusive behavior. If that sounds difficult or impossible, that’s one of the reasons I created this program.)
If you have come to the realization that you are doing emotionally abusive behavior and would like to change, join the Healed Being Program. It’s a transformational program that will give you the best chance at healing a damaged relationship and free you of the burden of needing to control or change others.
At a minimum, sign up for the free lessons at the link above, and you’ll start making changes right away.
If you’re not really sure if you are emotionally abusive, I created this episode to help you figure it out. If, after listening to the episode, you think you may be engaging in emotionally abusive behavior and would like to stop doing that, learn more about the program by clicking on the button below. The first four lessons and two Q&As are free with no obligation and no credit card required at sign-up.
When you heal from being emotionally abusive, a lot changes in your life:
- You’ll feel lighter
- You’ll feel freer to be yourself
- You will no longer be constantly focused on trying to control or change others
- You will stop driving yourself crazy wondering why people won’t live up to your standards
Emotional abuse ruins relationships and can leave emotional wounds for years. If you are hurtful toward people you care about and if you want to be happier and free of the pressure of wanting or needing to control those you love, start on the path to healing today.
You can do this. It’s a difficult path, but it’s worth every step.
