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Love and Abuse
Love and Abuse

Helping you identify toxic communication, emotional abuse, manipulation, and other forms of difficult behavior in relationships. Love and Abuse offers the perspective of both the victim and the perpetrator. Full of tips and advice for your friendships, family, love life, and marriage.

You’ll learn about covert abusive communication that takes away your power. And you’ll discover how to pinpoint the specific toxic behaviors, such as narcissistic abuse and verbal abuse, before you are dragged into a psychological game so deep you come out a shell of your former self.

Love and Abuse is the official podcast of The M.E.A.N. Workbook, an assessment and healing guide to help you evaluate the emotionally abusive and manipulative patterns in your relationship. Get the guide that will tell you exactly what’s happening in your relationship over at loveandabuse.com.

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Dont call them what they really are, it will work against you

Calling a duck a duck makes sense. But this logic works against you in the emotionally abusive relationship. Calling out an abusive person for who they are might just turn the whole thing around on you.

Dont call them what they really are, it will work against you
Dont call them what they really are, it will work against you
January 14, 2026
Total defeat and burnout in the emotionally abusive relationship
January 9, 2026
When you are a captive audience to the emotionally abusive monologuer
December 30, 2025
Ive stopped being abusive, let’s have sex
December 4, 2025
Don’t gaslight yourself into thinking you’re the abuser
November 17, 2025
The feelings of guilt and shame after leaving the abusive person
November 6, 2025
Breaking the trauma bond can be hard as hell
October 21, 2025
Can you heal from severe abuse while still in a severely abusive situation?
October 9, 2025
Why you may not be ready to call it abuse when it is abuse
September 17, 2025
Do you end the relationship because they won’t?
September 3, 2025
The breadcrumbing of relationships’ past
August 19, 2025
The language patterns of the abusive person
August 13, 2025
Can you ever go back to who you were?
July 28, 2025
Never trust someone who wants to change who you are
July 17, 2025
The love of my life is the abuser in my life
July 7, 2025
Can someone change even after they’ve done something terrible to you?
June 25, 2025
You being the center of their attention is most of the problem
May 27, 2025
When someone wants to change who you are
May 20, 2025
The empty threats that keep the abuse cycle alive
April 30, 2025
Trying to figure out who the emotionally abusive person really is in the relationship
April 15, 2025
When a relationship is not a relationship
March 26, 2025
Don’t lock yourself into a worse situation
March 12, 2025
Why abusive people need to maintain power and control over you
February 21, 2025
Those who hurt you have poor coping skills so give them a break… right?
February 5, 2025
The gradual shift from who you were to who you became in the emotionally abusive relationship
January 29, 2025
The growing resentment that can build when their hurtful behaviors never end
January 8, 2025
Are you the reason someone is hurtful to you?
December 11, 2024
When someone destroys what makes you happy
November 26, 2024
What makes taking a break from the relationship work?
November 12, 2024
When you can barely take care of yourself let alone give them what they want
September 20, 2024
When they shower you with love after they’ve done bad behavior
August 22, 2024
When you decide enough is enough – the first step isn’t the last
July 13, 2024
What change really looks like when the emotional abuser heals
June 6, 2024
Feeling discarded when they leave the relationship
May 22, 2024
When the emotional abuser reaches back out after they’ve healed and changed
April 25, 2024
Time with yourself is not only necessary, its required
April 15, 2024
Emotionally abusive behavior is also physically painful
March 27, 2024
When the good you do for them leads nowhere
March 22, 2024
A clever manipulation tactic that makes you believe you are the problem
March 2, 2024
When you think you’re strong enough to get back into the difficult relationship
February 22, 2024
How emotional abuse can enter your life like an infection
February 14, 2024
If you don’t know your limits, you wont have any
January 5, 2024
When they go silent and emotionally disconnect from you
November 29, 2023
Should you give in to their perception of you?
November 23, 2023
Their past trauma and abuse isn’t the immediate issue in the relationship
November 3, 2023
How do you know when your heart is sealed?
October 27, 2023
Is taking a break before breaking up the final blow to the relationship?
October 12, 2023
How you describe the challenges in your relationship can reveal if youre being emotionally abused
September 6, 2023
Should you make a list of everything they’re doing wrong and hand it to them?
August 18, 2023
Avoid getting trapped into an emotional prison from which you can’t escape
August 1, 2023
What are the chances of an emotional abuser healing and the relationship surviving?
July 27, 2023
Why they don’t stop hurting you when they see you hurting
June 30, 2023
When parents get involved in your difficult relationship
May 5, 2023
Religious Abuse: When they use your beliefs and faith against you
March 31, 2023
When they believe they’ve changed
February 17, 2023
LAA Insights – The kids in between the breakup from the toxic manipulative partner
February 2, 2023
The huge wall the emotional abuser puts up
January 24, 2023
The battles that drain your power
December 22, 2022
What will it take to finally get them to stop?
December 7, 2022
Is just functioning together good enough
September 2, 2022
When you find yourself crawling back to them over and over again
August 2, 2022
LAA Insights – Learning what attracts the hurtful people
July 19, 2022
LAA Insights – Is he right about me being the abuser?
July 6, 2022
Bonding with people that traumatize you
July 4, 2022
Can depression be used for manipulation?
April 20, 2022
The abuser that sneaks their way into your heart and life in order to lock you in to a controlling relationship
March 10, 2022
Can you find yourself after they stop the hurtful behavior?
March 1, 2022
Healthy responses to their frustrations and annoyances
February 3, 2022
The thoughts and beliefs that allow toxic behavior to seep into your relationship
January 24, 2022
The needy and clingy people that become emotionally abusive
January 5, 2022
When your friends and family get convinced you’re the hurtful one
December 20, 2021
Is telling them you’re leaving better than just leaving?
December 1, 2021
Is an emotional affair okay when you can’t get your needs met?
November 12, 2021
Afraid of staying and afraid of leaving
November 3, 2021
The type of person that doesn’t deserve a second chance
October 22, 2021
When you want them to hurt
October 15, 2021
When the emotionally abusive person leaves the relationship
October 7, 2021
When you want it to be over and they don’t
September 23, 2021
Subtle abusive behavior is meant to hurt you in a very specific way
September 14, 2021
Who are you when you’re not in a toxic relationship?
July 30, 2021
Is there an easy way to help someone understand they are being emotionally abusive?
July 11, 2021
Some people would rather hurt you than be vulnerable with you
June 29, 2021
Knowing the difference between emotional abuse and normal relationship difficulties
June 17, 2021
How many times does someone have to hurt you before you decide enough is enough?
June 3, 2021
Letting hurtful words or threatening comments become the new normal
May 18, 2021
Six reasons you may feel guilty about leaving an emotionally abusive person
April 30, 2021
Don’t let emotional abuse take your decisions away
April 15, 2021
What’s acceptable behavior in the relationship?
April 2, 2021
Is it reactive abuse or a normal response to emotionally abusive behavior?
March 18, 2021
What is emotional abuse? How do I know when it’s time to leave? And other important questions.
March 12, 2021
Can you be in a toxic relationship for so long there’s no turning back?
February 17, 2021
Do they benefit from your response to their hurtful behavior?
February 3, 2021
The slow disintegration of the deepest part of who you are
January 10, 2021
The guilt from believing you could have done more
December 30, 2020
You have to protect the most important person in your world from hurtful behavior
December 10, 2020
If you’ve tried everything to stop the hurtful behavior, what’s next?
November 21, 2020
Sometimes things need to be perfectly lined up to make the big decisions about the relationship
November 4, 2020
Understanding the addict in the manipulative relationship
October 19, 2020
Should you try harder to please the emotionally abusive person?
September 30, 2020
How the emotional abuser takes your empowerment tools away from you
September 10, 2020
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