
Sometimes the emotional abuse stops. If and when it does, will you know who you are? Do you know where you went?
Sometimes we lose ourselves in relationships like this because we are so busy trying to make the other person happy so they won’t make us miserable. But that’s probably not who you wanted to be. Finding yourself again can be the next challenge after the emotional abuse stops.
![]() | Paul Colaianni Paul Colaianni is a Behavior and Relationship Specialist with experience analyzing complex relationship dynamics since 2010. As the creator of the Healed Being program and host of the top-rated Love and Abuse and The Overwhelmed Brain podcasts, with over 21 million downloads worldwide, he specializes in the mechanics of behavioral change and the identification of hidden manipulation. |


