
There can be some good excuses for hurtful behavior. With some excuses, it can be hard to differentiate between fact and fiction.
When someone uses their condition or illness to manipulate or control you, it can make it that much more difficult to get out from under their spell.
![]() | Paul Colaianni Paul Colaianni is a Behavior and Relationship Specialist with experience analyzing complex relationship dynamics since 2010. As the creator of the Healed Being program and host of the top-rated Love and Abuse and The Overwhelmed Brain podcasts, with over 21 million downloads worldwide, he specializes in the mechanics of behavioral change and the identification of hidden manipulation. |

