
Emotionally abusive people usually drain all of your energy. It’s rare that they leave the relationship because they get their power from taking yours.
There can be two or three main reasons they leave, but no matter what the reason is, there’s almost always a trail of destruction behind them.
![]() | Paul Colaianni Paul Colaianni is a Behavior and Relationship Specialist with experience analyzing complex relationship dynamics since 2010. As the creator of the Healed Being program and host of the top-rated Love and Abuse and The Overwhelmed Brain podcasts, with over 21 million downloads worldwide, he specializes in the mechanics of behavioral change and the identification of hidden manipulation. |


